I was born in a secluded
village on a mountain. Day after day, my parents plowed the yellow dry
soil with their backs towards the sky.
One day, I wanted to buy
a handkerchief, which all girls around me seemed to have. So, one day I
stole 50 cents from my father's drawer. Father discovered about the
stolen money right away.
'Who stole the money?' he asked my brother and me.
I was stunned, too afraid to talk. Neither of us admitted to the fault,
so he said, 'Fine, if nobody wants to admit, you both should be
punished!' Suddenly, my younger brother gripped Father's hand and said,
‘Dad, I was the one who did it!' He took the blame, and punishment, for
me.
In the
middle of the night, all of sudden, I cried out loudly. My brother
covered my mouth with his little hand and said, ‘Sis, now don't cry
anymore. Everything has happened. ' I will never forget my brother's
expression when he protected me. That year, my brother was 8 years old
and I was 11 years old. I still hate myself for not having enough
courage to admit what I did. Years went by, but the incident still
seemed like it just happened yesterday.
When my brother was in
his last year of secondary school, he was accepted in an upper secondary
school in the central part of town. At the same time, I was accepted
into a university in the province.
That night, Father squatted
in the yard, smoking packet by packet. I could hear him ask my mother,
'Both of our children, they have good results? Very good results?'
Mother wiped off her tears and sighed, 'What is the use? How can we possibly finance both of them?&
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At that time, my brother walked out , he stood in front
of Father and said , 'Dad, I don't want to continue my study anymore, I
have read enough books.' Father became angry.
'Why do you have a spirit so weak? Even if it means I have to beg for money on the
streets, I will send you two to school until you have both finished
your studies!' And then he started to knock on every house in the
village to borrow money.
I stuck out my hand as gently as I
could to my brother's face, and told him, 'A boy has to continue his
study . If not , he will not be able to overcome this poverty we are
experiencing.' I, on the other hand, had decided not to further my study
at the university.
Nobody knew that on the next day, before
dawn, my brother left the house with a few pieces of worn out clothes
and a few dry beans. He sneaked to my side of the bed and left a note on
my pillow; 'Sis
, getting into a university is not easy. I will go find a job and I
will send money to you.' I held the note while sitting on my bed, and
cried until I lost my voice.
With the money father borrowed
from the whole village, and the money my brother earned from carrying
cement on his back at a construction site, finally, I managed to get to
the third year of my study in the university. That year, my brother was
17 years old; I was 20 years old.
One day, while I was studying
in my room, my roommate came in and told me, 'There 's a villager
waiting for you outside!' Why would there be a villager looking for me? I
walked out , and I saw my brother from afar. His whole body was covered
with dirt, dust, cement and sand. I asked him, 'Why did you not tell my
roommate that you are my brother?'
He replied with a smile, 'Look at my appearance. What will they think if they would know that I am your brother? Won
9;t they laugh at you?'
I felt so touched, and tears filled my
eyes. I swept away dirt and dust from my brother's body. And told him
with a lump in my throat, ‘I don 't care what people would say! You are
my brother no matter what your appearance.'
From his pocket, he
took out a butterfly hair clip. He put it on my hair and said, 'I saw
all the girls in town are wearing it. I think you should also have one.'
I could not hold back myself anymore. I pulled my brother into my arms
and cried. That year, my brother was 20 years old; I was 23 years old.
After I got married, I lived in the city. Many times my husband invited
my parents to come and live with us, but they didn't want. They said
once they left the village, they wouldn't know what to do. My brother
agreed with them. He said, 'Sis , you just take care of your
parents-in-law. I will take care of Mom and Dad here.'
My husband became the directors of his factory. We asked my brother to
accept the offer of being the manager in the maintenance department. But
my brother rejected the offer. He insisted on working as a repairman
instead for a start.
One day, my brother was on the top of a
ladder repairing a cable, when he got electrocuted, and was sent to the
hospital. My husband and I visited him at the hospital. Looking at the
plaster cast on his leg, I grumbled, 'Why did you reject the offer of
being a manager? Managers won't do something dangerous like that. Now
look at you - you are suffering a serious injury. Why didn't you just
listen to us ?'
With a serious expression on his face , he
defended his decision , 'Think of your brother-in-law, he just became
the director. If I , being uneducated , would become a manager, what
kind of rumors would fly around?'
My husband's eyes filled up with tears, and then I said,
'But you lack in education only because of me!'
'Why do you talk about the past ?' he said and then he held my hand. That year , he was 26 years old and I was 29 years old.
My brother was 30 years old when he married a farmer girl from the
village. During the wedding reception, the master of ceremonies asked
him, ' Who is the one person you respect and love the most?'
Without even taking a time to think, he answered, 'My sister. ' He
continued by telling a story I could not even remember. 'When I was in
primary school, the school was in a different village. Everyday, my
sister and I would walk for 2 hours to school and back home. One day, I
lost one of my gloves. My sister gave me one of hers. She wore only one
glove and she had to walk far. When we got home, her hands were
trembling because of the cold weather. She could not even hold her
chopsticks. From that day on, I swore that as long a
s I lived, I would take care of my sister and would always be good to
her.'
Applause filled up the room. All guests turned their
attention to me. I found it hard to speak, 'In my whole life, the one I
would like to thank most is my brother,' And in this happy occasion, in
front of the crowd, tears were rolling down my face again.
MORAL:
Love and care for the one you love every single day of your life. You
may think what you did is just a small deed, but to that someone, it may
mean a lot.
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